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Finlay Games is a transgender gay man with a passion for making honest content. He hosts a YouTube channel and blog where he shares on topics of gender transition, LGBT+ lifestyle and mental health. Finlay is writing a memoir about his phalloplasty surgery, sharing the surgical process and his journey of discovering his sexual self, due for publication early 2021.

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Transgender ‘Passing’ & Why It’s Problematic

Finlay Games, Sep 11

One of the most common questions I am asked from transgender people starting their journey, is, “What can I do to pass as a man/woman?” I cringe at this question every time.

One of the most common questions I am asked from t...

How To Reduce Scars – 7 tips Post Top Surgery

Finlay Games, Jul 23

Scars are the unfortunate downside to going through gender transition. However, with good care, it is possible to reduce scars.

Scars are the unfortunate downside to going through gender transition.

Top Surgery – A Five Year Post-Op Reflection

Finlay Games, Jul 20

It has now been five years since my top surgery (chest reconstruction as part of my gender transition).

It has now been five years since my top surgery (c...

Phalloplasty Final Stage | AMS Implant Review

Finlay Games, Jul 05

The 8th May 2019, marks nine months since I had the final stage of my phalloplasty surgery and completed my gender transition.

The 8th May 2019, marks nine months since I had th...

Discovering My sexuality Through Gender Transition

Finlay Games, Jun 05

I have a tricky history when it comes to sex and sexuality. Growing up, I did not feel sexy at all and sex was often problematic. In my younger years I dated men.

I have a tricky history when it comes to sex and sexuality.

Phalloplasty hospital kit | The Essential List Of What To Take With You

Finlay Games, May 29

I frequently receive messages, from guys who are about to go into surgery, asking for my advice as to what to take with them to hospital.

I frequently receive messages, from guys who are a...

First Stage Phalloplasty | A Guide to Recovering at Home

Finlay Games, May 15

The first stage of radial forearm free flap phalloplasty is the most recovery intensive. Not only does it take many weeks to heal, but there are also multiple affected areas.

The first stage of radial forearm free flap phalloplasty is the most recovery intensive.

Phalloplasty Sensation Progress Over Time

Finlay Games, May 08

Phalloplasty, in being such a complicated procedure, comes with a lot of possible complications.

Phalloplasty, in being such a complicated procedure, comes with a lot of possible complications.

How to Prepare for Top Surgery

Finlay Games, May 02

Good recovery from surgery starts with good preparation. Preparing for your top surgery procedure well in advance will help to give you a great head start in your healing process.

Good recovery from surgery starts with good preparation.

How to Choose Your Top Surgery Surgeon

Finlay Games, Apr 24

Chest dysphoria is extremely painful and understandably we want to find a surgeon as quickly as possible.

Chest dysphoria is extremely painful and understan...