Discover Life Phases

Reworking Relationships

Mending the bonds that have been built.

Even the best built roads form potholes, and our relationships are no different! There are highs and lows, and you navigate through them, or realise that it's time to move on. Sometimes relationships bring a lot many things closer, sometimes your kids, businesses and future plans are involved. It's all about sitting down and thinking about what YOU want, realistically. Easier said than done, but the answer will dawn upon you. Of course, a little help doesn't hurt. Which is why we are here!

Frequently Asked Questions

If you feel that your partner can stand honesty, and that both of you can benefit from it, go ahead and talk to them. But if there is no room for communication in the relationship anymore, then it might be best to leave.

Talking about it to your partner is the best thing you can do. A simple "hi" is enough to initiate it. This will give you an idea whether saving the relationship is worth it. Then both of you can evaluate what you can work on.

You need to sit and evaluate whether the attraction that you don't have is sexual or loving in nature. Then accordingly you need to talk to your partner and see your options. You can also consider couples therapy.

If you feel that your partner can stand honesty, and that both of you can benefit from it, go ahead and talk to them. But if there is no room for communication in the relationship anymore, then it might be best to leave.

Stories on this topic

What does "Unlearning" mean?

Lindsay Michelle, yesterday

I'm sure by now you've heard of the concept of "unlearning," as the word is becoming more and more p...

I'm sure by now you've heard of the concept of "un...

Overcome Your Negative Thoughts on Dating

Martha Tara Lee, Sep 14

Why do I keep attracting ‘losers’, or the ‘wrong person’, you might ask (pattern)? Why are everybody...

Why do I keep attracting ‘losers’, or the ‘wrong p...

Why Do I Teach Erotic Hypnosis to Lovers?

Dr. Amy Marsh, Sep 07

The short answer is: it’s another part of my sexological “bag of tricks.” But I think this question also requires a longer explanation.

The short answer is: it’s another part of my sexological “bag of tricks.

Tantra and Relationships

Michael Charming, Sep 02

How Tantra can help in a relationship Tantra is raising consciousness and awareness, creating an impact on all aspects of life, including sexual connection with your partner.

How Tantra can help in a relationship Tantra is ra...

Soulmate Relationships Aren’t All Meant to be Happily Ever After

Martha Tara Lee, Aug 12

Recalling from years ago… my marriage was on the rocks. Psychic: “… You have to leave him or you will lose everything including everything you worked so hard for (aka my practice).

Recalling from years ago… my marriage was on the rocks.

So…You Got A ‘NO.’ Here Are Your Options.

Georgie Wolf, Aug 10

Welcome! I’m guessing you’re here because someone said ‘no’ to you recently. It might have been flat-out: a ‘no thanks,’ or ‘I’m not interested.

Welcome! I’m guessing you’re here because someone said ‘no’ to you recently.

It is the month of Romance and Pleasure at Tickle.Life!

Nimisha, Aug 01

This month is going to be all about romance and pleasure at Tickle.Life! We will be celebrating the Romance Awareness Month and Anal Pleasure Month.

This month is going to be all about romance and pleasure at Tickle.

Tickle.Life #DiscoverSex Giveaway: Win FREE therapy with Dr. Lee!

Tickle.Life Editorial Team, Aug 01

Participate in the Tickle.Life #DiscoverSex giveaway and win a chance to an exclusive, one hour, online therapy session with renowned psychotherapist and sex therapist, Dr.

Participate in the Tickle.

Tolerating your feelings is necessary to experience intimacy

Ailsa Keppie, Jul 25

I recently had an aHa moment when talking to a client about this idea of being able to ‘tolerate our feelings’. Feelings make our life alive. What do I mean by that? Well, let me explain.

I recently had an aHa moment when talking to a cli...

Sexual wellbeing experts on this topic

Dr. Trina Read

Kristopher Lovestone

Chetana Chaudhury

Jennifer Beman

Health In Vitro

Ailsa Keppie

Podcasts on this topic

Let’s Get Vulnerable: Relationship and Dating Advice

59 Episodes

We Gotta Thing - A Swinger Podcast

79 Episodes

XR-U : The BDSM, Sex, and Fetish Show

52 Episodes

Love's Outer Limits

53 Episodes

Monogam-ish Podcast

20 Episodes

Sluts and Scholars

162 Episodes

Relationships Uncomplicated

68 Episodes

RiseUp with Chicken and Dragon

15 Episodes

No More Toxic Relationship Podcast

13 Episodes

Tickle.Life Podcast

13 Episodes

The Couples Therapist Couch

141 Episodes

The Relationship Podcast from Relate

8 Episodes

My Orgasmic Life

133 Episodes

Multiamory Podcast

217 Episodes

Just Breathe: Parenting Your LGBTQ Teen

25 Episodes

TransPanTastic: Transgender parenting, work, marriage, transition, and life!

315 Episodes

Foreplay Radio -- Couples and Sex Therapy

251 Episodes

The Relationship School Podcast

308 Episodes