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Reworking Relationships

Mending the bonds that have been built.

Even the best built roads form potholes, and our relationships are no different! There are highs and lows, and you navigate through them, or realise that it's time to move on. Sometimes relationships bring a lot many things closer, sometimes your kids, businesses and future plans are involved. It's all about sitting down and thinking about what YOU want, realistically. Easier said than done, but the answer will dawn upon you. Of course, a little help doesn't hurt. Which is why we are here!

Frequently Asked Questions

If you feel that your partner can stand honesty, and that both of you can benefit from it, go ahead and talk to them. But if there is no room for communication in the relationship anymore, then it might be best to leave.

Talking about it to your partner is the best thing you can do. A simple "hi" is enough to initiate it. This will give you an idea whether saving the relationship is worth it. Then both of you can evaluate what you can work on.

You need to sit and evaluate whether the attraction that you don't have is sexual or loving in nature. Then accordingly you need to talk to your partner and see your options. You can also consider couples therapy.

If you feel that your partner can stand honesty, and that both of you can benefit from it, go ahead and talk to them. But if there is no room for communication in the relationship anymore, then it might be best to leave.

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