There are vibrators that make it possible to take your pleasure to the streets—or just about anywhere else—and they’re among the naughtiest secrets a person can keep.
(Think about that the next time you’re buying milk and eggs: the person standing behind you could be wearing one, edging their way toward orgasm right there in the grocery store line, and you’d never know.)
If you're seeking an exciting way to ignite the flames of passion in your relationship or simply want to add an extra dash of excitement to your solo adventures, vibrating panties and other wearable vibrators might just be the ticket to an uncharted world of sexploration.
These cleverly designed devices are like a secret handshake between pleasure and adventure.
They're typically discreet, whisper-quiet (although not always!), and oh-so-sneaky, making them perfect for delivering pleasure on the sly.
When it comes to vibrators you can use in public, there are two primary options available.
So, how can these electrifying little gadgets reignite the spark and take your sex life out on the town?
Well, let's consider a few thrilling scenarios worth exploring:
Before you take your vibe out into the world, there are a few essential things to consider.
1. Choose the Right Vibrator: This might seem like a no-brainer, but the first step toward discreet public play involves selecting the right vibrator for the occasion. Opt for one that's designed with discretion in mind: a whisper-quiet motor, compact size, and remote or app control. Generally speaking, vibes that operate at or below 50 decibels are the quietest.
2. Dress Appropriately: Your choice of clothing can make or break your public vibrator play. Choose outfits that allow easy access to your vibrator while keeping it concealed. Skirts and loose-fitting dresses can fit this bill, but only if your vibrator is attached firmly to your underwear. (Trust us, you don’t want it falling out for the world to see.) Clothing that fits tightly may be too restrictive and depending on the vibrator’s size, may show a bulge that’s less than discreet.
3. Plan Your Location: Picking the right location is crucial for public play. If you’re shy, choose places where you're less likely to be disturbed or observed by others. Empty parks, quiet movie theaters, or secluded corners of a restaurant can provide the privacy you need. Also, consider the ambient sound of any room or public space you’ll be playing in. As an example, even the quietest vibe runs the risk of being heard in a silent library; a location with some amount of background noise is safer. Finally, be sure to avoid places where public play might be illegal or considered offensive.
4. Practice Discretion: Keep the volume and intensity of your vibrator low, especially if you’re in a place with minimal ambient noise. If you're with a partner and they’re controlling your toy, maintain open communication through non-verbal cues, such as an established visual signal or code words, to adjust the intensity or stop the activity if necessary. (And it goes without saying that trust is vital; if you give the signal to stop the vibrations, your partner has to be trusted to oblige.)
5. Stay Safe and Respectful: Safety and consent are paramount when engaging in public play. If you're with a partner, ensure that both of you are on the same page regarding boundaries and comfort levels. Additionally, respect the boundaries of others around you and avoid actions that could make someone else uncomfortable.
Wearable vibrators—including vibrating panties—make it possible to enjoy discreet pleasure in public and there are plenty of ways to play, alone or with a partner.
No matter where you take your vibrator, if you ever feel unsafe or that your privacy is compromised, stop immediately and relocate to a more suitable location.
When it comes to taking your vibe out for a night (or day) on the town, the world is your oyster!