An erogenous zone is an area of the human body that has heightened sensitivity, which, when stimulated, may create a sexual response such as relaxation, thoughts of sexual fantasies, sexual arousal and orgasm. It’s all about the touch that is felt on these areas that make you feel aroused. Erogenous points are present in all, males and females. Genitals are the obvious erogenous zones but apart from them, certain other body parts are also sensitive to touch which arouses us sensually.
Ears – playing with ears can be very sexy. Gently licking, sucking and brushing your finger over the ear and blowing in the air gently and softly can be a great turn on. Due to a number of nerve endings and sensory receptors on the skin of the back of the ears help men and women get sensual easily.
“Soft on the neck of either dove love's hands let slip the reins: and while we look for light of love, love's twilight wanes...”
― Oksana Rus
Neck – not just the front of the neck but also the back portion of the neck is highly sensitive. A light, gentle touch works best with this point. Standing behind your partner and brushing your fingers up and down very softly, and then do the same with your mouth, making a trail of kisses can be very subtly erotic. A study found that women with spinal cord injury can get pretty much turned on by just neck stimulation alone.
“A kiss is a secret which takes the lips for the ear.”
― Edmond Rostand, Cyrano de Bergerac
Lips – when it comes to kissing and relationship building lips are the most important parts which are to be played on. Not just rigorous kissing and biting but gently playing and brushing your fingers over your partner's lips can be a fantastic factor when it comes to building and enjoying intimacy.
Naval – a naval has been a hotspot for decades. Kissing on and around the navel can give females the best turn-on. It stimulates them and helps them arouse. Slightly moving and brushing your fingers around the naval area can also be great arousal.
Nipples – Nipples are one of the biggest turn-ons for both men and women. The skin is really sensitive on the nipples and it is a home a large number of nerve endings which adds on to the arousal sensation. Holding them between your lips, slightly biting them, sucking onto them and swirling your tongue gives a great amount of pleasure and arousal to your partner.
Inner arms & thighs – Slowly kissing and caressing the inner areas of arms and thighs can bring about tickles and arouse sensuous feelings. The skin here is softer and hence makes it easy for the person to feel tickles and feel the pleasure.
Foot – the feet are the prime tickle spot. The soles of the feet contain nerve endings and pressure points that can lead to arousal. Rubbing against the soles can also feel sensual. And nibbling and kissing your partner's toes one by one, then blowing warm air over them afterwards, will give them that super pleasurable pins and needles feeling.
“Is sex dirty? Only when it's being done right.”
― Woody Allen
Not just a few but your whole body has plenty of erogenous points. These points are known so because they are highly sensitive to touch. Generally, areas having plenty of nerve endings are sensitive to touch and can be considered as arousal and sensual points. Apart from the common ones, certain erogenous points differ from person to person. Some people might feel the tickle on their scalp some may not, while some feel it on their foot some may not. These differences make it more interesting to explore the other person and add more fun in the bed.
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