Molly Francis

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Molly details lessons learned from her non-monogamous marriage and explorations in the lifestyle. She’s recounted the events of many terrible first dates, as well as others that have gone exceptionally well. Her background in social sciences causes her to evaluate sex and relationship behaviors from a sociological standpoint. In addition to chronicling her adventures, Molly also writes erotic fiction that celebrates female sexual empowerment and reflects her lifestyle. When she isn’t writing or attending lifestyle events, Molly is parenting her pile of kids and driving her minivan through suburbia. She is equally comfortable in mud-covered hiking boots and fishnets with heels. Molly’s hobbies include weightlifting, skiing, hiking, dancing questionably to lousy cover bands, drinking wine or Woodford Reserve Bourbon, and reading too many books. You can follow Molly’s adventures on Medium and Twitter.

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My First Time Asking a Woman For a Date

Molly Francis, Jun 24

I’ve finally chased the homophobic words of my parents from my head, almost. I’ve finally admitted to myself and the world that I am not a straight woman.

I’ve finally chased the homophobic words of my parents from my head, almost.

I’m Cheating On My Vibrator

Molly Francis, May 20

My first experience with a wand massager and why I’m never giving it up

My first experience with a wand massager and why I’m never giving it up

Marriage is a Contract; Write Your Own

Molly Francis, Apr 19

When couples marry, they discuss a plethora of topics. They agree about having children, about where they’ll live, and how they’ll divide household chores.

When couples marry, they discuss a plethora of topics.

Social Distancing Means Better Nudes

Molly Francis, Apr 13

I’ve upped my game, and my FWB’s are reaping the benefits.

I’ve upped my game, and my FWB’s are reaping the benefits.

How to Find Out If Your Date is a Man or a Man-Boy

Molly Francis, Apr 12

I went on a coffee date with a friend whom I was considering sleeping with. I met him recently at a mechanic’s office, he hit on me (tastefully) and we developed a texting relationship.

I went on a coffee date with a friend whom I was considering sleeping with.

Maintaining Your Sexuality With Chronic Pain

Molly Francis, Apr 05

Taking responsibility for your sexual self is the key to unlocking desire Two years ago, I was the fittest I'd ever been.

Taking responsibility for your sexual self is the ...