Kristopher Lovestone

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Kris is a sex educator, couples counselor and sexual empowerment coach. Author of Conscious Cock, The Empowered Sexuality Manual For Men, he helps people overcome relationship exhaustion & achieve their love-life dreams with easy to master tools & techniques. Free downloads, advice & more info at https://www.consciouscock.com

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Nipple Stimulation

Kristopher Lovestone, Jan 14 2020

Nipples and breasts are a powerful erogenous zone for women, but you have to know how to touch them right.

Nipples and breasts are a powerful erogenous zone ...

Fear Of Pregnancy Inhibits Intimacy!

Kristopher Lovestone, Jan 12 2020

Fear of conceiving a child can be a MAJOR impediment to arousal for women! For too long too many men...

Fear of conceiving a child can be a MAJOR impedime...

How Listening Can Super Charge Your Love Life

Kristopher Lovestone, Jan 10 2020

So many couples struggle because they fail to really hear each other. They put words into each other’s mouths and filter what the other is saying.

So many couples struggle because they fail to really hear each other.

#MeToo – My Response

Kristopher Lovestone, Dec 22 2019

#metoo – I was raised by a single mother who didn’t hide from me the reality of her life. I had a front-row seat growing up seeing her cat called, sexually harassed, shamed, manipulated, accosted, threatened, abused, beaten, raped, lied to, cheated on, and impregnated & infected with STIs by a lying & cheating lover. And while I was taught by her honesty and transparency with me, I was also the only one who was there to pick up the pieces and help her to move on….each…time… Trying to scrape by financially, we also took in foster kids from time to time to help make ends meet, and of the many abused children that we helped in our home, I’ll never forget the 13 year old girl who was placed with us in an emergency the night she was raped by her father… So…I was raised knowing first hand some of the atrocities men inflict upon women in our “civilized culture”, and I took that with me into adulthood where I worked at family planning and in mental health for years, deepening my awareness o

#metoo – I was raised by a single mother who didn’t hide from me the reality of her life. I had a front-row seat growing up seeing her cat called, sexually harassed, shamed, manipulated, accosted, threatened, abused, beaten, raped, lied to, cheated on, and impregnated & infected with STIs by a lying & cheating lover. And while I was taught by her honesty and transparency with me, I was also the only one who was there to pick up the pieces and help her to move on….each…time… Trying to scrape by financially, we also took in foster kids from time to time to help make ends meet, and of the many abused children that we helped in our home, I’ll never forget the 13 year old girl who was placed with us in an emergency the night she was raped by her father… So…I was raised knowing first hand some of the atrocities men inflict upon women in our “civilized culture”, and I took that with me into adulthood where I worked at family planning and in mental health for years, deepening my awareness o

Master The Power Of Consent

Kristopher Lovestone, Dec 21 2019

Consent is not just saying and honoring a “yes” or “no”. It’s also about claiming your power to stand up for yourself and letting people know who you really are rather than playing some role that you are “supposed to” play.  It’s also about valuing knowing who your partner really is inside and loving the real them rather than some idealized image of who you want them to be. Many people have been sexually abused, experienced sexual trauma and sexual shame.  If you want to be a conscious lover you need to master the art of wielding the power of consent. If you want to be a conscious lover you need to master the art of wielding the power of consent. It’s A Double-Edged Sword It’s a double edged sword. You both have to learn how to stand up for yourself and be your own best advocate and at the same time you need to learn how to foster and accept your partner’s giving and withholding of their consent to you! The basis of all of it is believing that you have the option to state wh

Consent is not just saying and honoring a “yes” or “no”. It’s also about claiming your power to stand up for yourself and letting people know who you really are rather than playing some role that you are “supposed to” play.  It’s also about valuing knowing who your partner really is inside and loving the real them rather than some idealized image of who you want them to be. Many people have been sexually abused, experienced sexual trauma and sexual shame.  If you want to be a conscious lover you need to master the art of wielding the power of consent. If you want to be a conscious lover you need to master the art of wielding the power of consent. It’s A Double-Edged Sword It’s a double edged sword. You both have to learn how to stand up for yourself and be your own best advocate and at the same time you need to learn how to foster and accept your partner’s giving and withholding of their consent to you! The basis of all of it is believing that you have the option to state wh

Unprotected Sex Is Having Sex With All Past Partners!

Kristopher Lovestone, Dec 20 2019

When you have unprotected sex with someone you figuratively have sex with each of their previous sex partners.  Whether they show any signs of having a sexually transmitted infection or disease, you simply can’t know. Unprotected Sex can cause more than a dozen STDs There are more than a dozen different kinds of common STDs. They can infect different areas, can be spread in different ways, and some can be cured and others can only be treated. Do you think you are STD/STI free because you have no symptoms? Think again. Do you think it’s okay to have sex without a condom because your partner doesn’t have any symptoms of an STD/STI? Not so fast. The truth is that very often STD/STIs don’t have symptoms! There are two main types: some are transmitted through body fluids (Hepatitis B Hep C, syphilis Chlamydia, HIV/AIDS, Gonorrhea, nongonococcal urethritis (NGU), and cytomegalovirus (CMV)) and others through skin to skin contact (Herpes, syphilis, scabies, fungus (jock itch)

When you have unprotected sex with someone you figuratively have sex with each of their previous sex partners.  Whether they show any signs of having a sexually transmitted infection or disease, you simply can’t know. Unprotected Sex can cause more than a dozen STDs There are more than a dozen different kinds of common STDs. They can infect different areas, can be spread in different ways, and some can be cured and others can only be treated. Do you think you are STD/STI free because you have no symptoms? Think again. Do you think it’s okay to have sex without a condom because your partner doesn’t have any symptoms of an STD/STI? Not so fast. The truth is that very often STD/STIs don’t have symptoms! There are two main types: some are transmitted through body fluids (Hepatitis B Hep C, syphilis Chlamydia, HIV/AIDS, Gonorrhea, nongonococcal urethritis (NGU), and cytomegalovirus (CMV)) and others through skin to skin contact (Herpes, syphilis, scabies, fungus (jock itch)

The Amazing Health Benefits Of Semen

Kristopher Lovestone, Dec 19 2019

Semen (cum, jizz, ejaculate, sperm) is horribly misunderstood! Not only is it the very stuff of cre...

Semen (cum, jizz, ejaculate, sperm) is horribly mi...

Solve the G-Spot Once & For All!

Kristopher Lovestone, Dec 18 2019

To solve the G-Spot Puzzle once & for all you need to understand the anatomy and how it works! It’s not some mythical far off land, it’s a paradise that waits just inside, but you have to unlock it to release it’s treasures. And when you do! OH MY! You can never go back to live in the dark ages again! The G-Spot is actually not a spot. It’s a spongy sleeve around the urethral tube…just like the penis could be described as a spongy sleeve around the urethral tube! It’s proper name is the urethral sponge, and it is comprised of erectile tissue, again, just like the penis! Finding the G-Spot is the first step to unlocking powerful orgasms that can lead to toe-curling female ejaculations! That’s a major point to understand. As she gets aroused, the G-spot engorges and swells with blood and becomes more sensitive to touch. As this happens it becomes pleasurable to stroke it, rub it, and generally massage and love it up! How To Find The G-Spot The other thing to really understan

To solve the G-Spot Puzzle once & for all you need to understand the anatomy and how it works! It’s not some mythical far off land, it’s a paradise that waits just inside, but you have to unlock it to release it’s treasures. And when you do! OH MY! You can never go back to live in the dark ages again! The G-Spot is actually not a spot. It’s a spongy sleeve around the urethral tube…just like the penis could be described as a spongy sleeve around the urethral tube! It’s proper name is the urethral sponge, and it is comprised of erectile tissue, again, just like the penis! Finding the G-Spot is the first step to unlocking powerful orgasms that can lead to toe-curling female ejaculations! That’s a major point to understand. As she gets aroused, the G-spot engorges and swells with blood and becomes more sensitive to touch. As this happens it becomes pleasurable to stroke it, rub it, and generally massage and love it up! How To Find The G-Spot The other thing to really understan

The A-Spot = The Epicenter

Kristopher Lovestone, Dec 17 2019

The A-Spot & Cervix are known as the Epicenter because they produce earth-shattering orgasms similar to an earthquake, and their source is the deepest part inside the woman’s temple. Most women never get to experience these life-altering orgasms, and most men don’t have the knowledge to know how to love her there. Let’s change that! The A-Spot & cervix are amazing sexual structures that, unlike the penis or clitoris, have no refractory period–so after they yield an orgasm, there is no need to stop the stimulation! You can keep on massaging, and they will continue to produce the whole-body, spiritual ecstasy orgasm that we all crave! A-Spot & Cervical orgasms are often described as whole-body spiritual experiences similar to taking ecstacy! How To Find The A-Spot The A-Spot is located just on the front side of the cervix, in the pocket or curve of the vagina behind the G-Spot and Bladder called the Anterior Fornix Erogenous zone, or the AFE zone (google it!). It is known to pro

The A-Spot & Cervix are known as the Epicenter because they produce earth-shattering orgasms similar to an earthquake, and their source is the deepest part inside the woman’s temple. Most women never get to experience these life-altering orgasms, and most men don’t have the knowledge to know how to love her there. Let’s change that! The A-Spot & cervix are amazing sexual structures that, unlike the penis or clitoris, have no refractory period–so after they yield an orgasm, there is no need to stop the stimulation! You can keep on massaging, and they will continue to produce the whole-body, spiritual ecstasy orgasm that we all crave! A-Spot & Cervical orgasms are often described as whole-body spiritual experiences similar to taking ecstacy! How To Find The A-Spot The A-Spot is located just on the front side of the cervix, in the pocket or curve of the vagina behind the G-Spot and Bladder called the Anterior Fornix Erogenous zone, or the AFE zone (google it!). It is known to pro

How To Turn A Woman On

Kristopher Lovestone, Dec 16 2019

Women need more dedication to “turn-on” than men do. Most guys get turned on just by genital touch, but women often need to have their minds activated, their worries, concerns & fears addressed and their hearts loved and taken-care-of. Only then can they often settle into the trust and relaxation required to open their legs in a sincere, welcoming & hungry way! It’s a science. It’s an art. It can be learned, and it’s worth the effort! Why Learn How To Turn Her On? When a woman has a partner who turns on her mind, addresses her worries, concerns & fears, and loves and cares for her heart…then her treasure chest unlocks and she welcomes him in hungrily and gives to him abundantly. If you demonstrate your worthiness of her sexual trust, she’ll give you the keys to her temple and lavish you in its luxuries and riches! When a woman has a partner who turns on her mind, addresses her worries, concerns & fears & loves her, she unlocks. How To Turn Her On It can seem daunting, bu

Women need more dedication to “turn-on” than men do. Most guys get turned on just by genital touch, but women often need to have their minds activated, their worries, concerns & fears addressed and their hearts loved and taken-care-of. Only then can they often settle into the trust and relaxation required to open their legs in a sincere, welcoming & hungry way! It’s a science. It’s an art. It can be learned, and it’s worth the effort! Why Learn How To Turn Her On? When a woman has a partner who turns on her mind, addresses her worries, concerns & fears, and loves and cares for her heart…then her treasure chest unlocks and she welcomes him in hungrily and gives to him abundantly. If you demonstrate your worthiness of her sexual trust, she’ll give you the keys to her temple and lavish you in its luxuries and riches! When a woman has a partner who turns on her mind, addresses her worries, concerns & fears & loves her, she unlocks. How To Turn Her On It can seem daunting, bu