Consent

(Not so) Risky Business: Tips for making sexy time safe(r)

Angel Russell, Sep 29 2020

My partner and I are working our way through a show on Hulu called Harlots. One of the main characters, Nancy, runs her own brothel and works as a Dominatrix.

My partner and I are working our way through a show on Hulu called Harlots.

Using your words: 5 ways to have better conversations about sex

Georgie Wolf, Sep 07 2020

Sex is better when we understand each other. To do that, we need to talk. My first boyfriend at university was one delightfully kinky bastard. He was twenty-three and wore a lot of black leather.

Sex is better when we understand each other. To do that, we need to talk.

Reasonable Expectations: The Professor Sex approach to "Trigger Warnings"

Angel Russell, Aug 30 2020

Let’s talk about Trigger Warnings. Note: This post is a response to conversations in our Facebook discussion group about Trigger Warnings.

Let’s talk about Trigger Warnings.

A no-bullshit guide to sexual consent

Georgie Wolf, Aug 16 2020

It seems like everyone is talking about consent these days. But when it comes time to have the conversation, we still get stuck.

It seems like everyone is talking about consent these days.

Is Online dating empowering?

Chetana Chaudhury, Jun 26 2020

Tinder, Bumble, Hinge and other dating apps, the options are endless, and so are the people using them. In this fun game, it offers some serious business too.

Tinder, Bumble, Hinge and other dating apps, the o...

How to Make Consent Sexier?

Joanna Anagnostou, Feb 18 2020

Consent is an important term discussed nowadays in the context of sex. It is a crucial step in having a good intimate experience with a partner. This word carries weight and that has in turn made people feel stressed about gaining informed, and enthusiastic consent. Consent is defined asking for permission to do something or for something to happen (source), and this definition makes the process seem very formal. It shouldn’t feel like raising your hand in classroom to ask if you can go to the bathroom, it should be about finding out what type of sexy things you and your partner(s) want.  People can be intimidated by asking for consent out of a fear of making things awkward or ruining the mood. It won’t, consent is sexy! Asking someone if they want to do something or what they want to do is hot and makes for a fun and pleasurable time for everyone involved. Consent is a mutual thing. This means asking and getting consent is a reciprocal process. It’s about understanding each oth

Consent is an important term discussed nowadays in the context of sex. It is a crucial step in having a good intimate experience with a partner. This word carries weight and that has in turn made people feel stressed about gaining informed, and enthusiastic consent. Consent is defined asking for permission to do something or for something to happen (source), and this definition makes the process seem very formal. It shouldn’t feel like raising your hand in classroom to ask if you can go to the bathroom, it should be about finding out what type of sexy things you and your partner(s) want.  People can be intimidated by asking for consent out of a fear of making things awkward or ruining the mood. It won’t, consent is sexy! Asking someone if they want to do something or what they want to do is hot and makes for a fun and pleasurable time for everyone involved. Consent is a mutual thing. This means asking and getting consent is a reciprocal process. It’s about understanding each oth

How To Address Ethical Concerns in BDSM

Tatyannah King, Jan 31 2020

One of the best things about ethical BDSM is that it inspires a sense of sexual freedom in which we ...

One of the best things about ethical BDSM is that ...

Queer

M. Christian, Oct 24 2019

Queer-phobia. What is it? How can it affect you. Read on to know how homophobia and heretonormativity affects not only the 'queer' but also the 'straights'.

Queer-phobia. What is it? How can it affect you. Read on to know how homophobia and heretonormativity affects not only the 'queer' but also the 'straights'.

Getting Started with Bondage

Michael Charming, Oct 17 2019

In celebration of Kink Month, we present the second of a three-part exploration guide for bondage written by an expert Orgasm & Relationship Coach, Michael Charming. Contd. from Part 1 and Part 2.

In celebration of Kink Month, we present the second of a three-part exploration guide for bondage written by an expert Orgasm & Relationship Coach, Michael Charming. Contd. from Part 1 and Part 2.

What is Stopping you from Exploration?

Chantel, Sep 27 2019

What is stopping you from exploring more of your sexuality, or all of it for that matter? Find out here.

What is stopping you from exploring more of your sexuality, or all of it for that matter? Find out here.