Faking orgasms in bed is common. Women fake orgasms for multiple reasons. Have you ever felt that she is faking it? Read this article to find out.
Ever felt there was something ‘off’ after sex with your significant other? A niggling feeling that just doesn’t go away? We’ve all been there at some point or the other. Do you feel like your partner is faking orgasms?
But how would we know? This is what, as a man, I will attempt to figure out.
Unlike men, a woman can fake an orgasm due to many reasons. Some are cool, and some are cooler!
- Let’s take one possible reason. She’s tired and just wants to crash and you’re asking “Did you come?”. During this time, she may be distracted, restful and her body would most probably relaxed.
- Another reason is the sex sucks and she keeps saying “more, more!” “Oh my God you’re sooooooo good!”. She doesn’t want to hurt your feelings and she is letting you down softly and to boost your ego. While this is one of the most common areas, I will be elaborating on a few more.
- Another reason for faking orgasms is for non-sexual gains – Like to cement a relationship and recognition for being the man’s official girlfriend.
Guys, given the frequency of faking, if you need to ask, chances are she didn’t come. Especially if you make love while you are drunk, rush into it or don’t provide clitoris-tingling foreplay. Ladies do love foreplay.
Most orgasms are actually pretty hard to miss. Think about your own and you will be closer to identifying a woman’s. Most of it begins with quicker breathing, often accompanied by gasps or moans followed by several seconds of rapid, involuntary contractions of the muscles around the vulva and anus, usually with a jerky movement of the hips and often the whole body. Orgasms conclude with release into relaxation and dreamy contentment. If you get her to orgasm orally, your lips and tongue are likely to feel her vaginal muscles contract.
And please, ignore porn. Remember those women are acting too. The only time they climax is in privacy with their significant other. Everything you see on screen is exaggerated to the highest level one can imagine. Porn has very little of what actually makes a woman climax.
Guys, if we haven’t got this by now, we’re in trouble. But…better late than never right?
Explore sexual wellbeing
Join our email list to receive our top stories and the best podcasts in sexual wellbeing from around the world.
Flipping the Gender Marker
Abbey Tackett, Jul 11
I am having some difficulties with my name change that is causing that process to be delayed. But in the state of Ohio, I am able to apply to have the gender marker changed on my drivers license.
I am having some difficulties with my name change that is causing that process to be delayed.
4 Must-Haves For Phenomenal First Time Pegging
Sunny Megatron, Sep 30
Anal play is still considered rather taboo in our society, especially for men. It can be viewed as too kinky, emasculating, or as a threat to a man’s heterosexual status.
Anal play is still considered rather taboo in our society, especially for men.