Nayland describes their ideal relationship as being similar to Morticia and Gomez Addams. Sex should be fun and any "failure" in bed should be seen as an opportunity to learn and get better. A sense of humor is key.
Kink has a lot to teach everyone about consent and communication. Finally, don't be boring. That's the worst.
You can listen to Nayland's full interview at www.fruitbowlpodcast.com
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